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Carol's avatar

Love this, Jeni! I so resonate with your description of finding those unidentifiable people in boxes of old photos. My paternal grandmother’s family were city people in WV, and they took lots of photos of the oddest things - much like we do now, I suppose. So many people I wonder about! The extended family was quite large, so they could be unknown relatives, or friends together on an outing. My mom’s family were very rural, so photos were rare, and pretty much always a family member, which makes those extra intriguing! Who were they? What was the fabric of their lives? So many photos are digital now, I wonder if my grandchild will ever have memories like the photo boxes? Thanks for this journey!❤️

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Isabelle Elena's avatar

I totally understand the desire to grasp at "the nearly unreachable past", as you describe it. I think it's why I too love to read old books -- I love Lucy Maud Montgomery, Jane Austen, The Brontës, and I'm currently working my way through Great Expectations by Charles Dickens, go to Shakespeare plays, sing hymns even though I'm not religious, or look at old photographs of my parents, grandparents, great grandparents. It makes me feel connected to a lineage of humanity -- to know I'm laughing at something my great grandfather probably laughed at in a popular novel, to know I'm gasping at the same moment in Hamlet as 500 years of theatregoers before me. I feel embedded in history rather than its cresting wave.

You writing about kin-keeping is so profound and moving. I've always wondered about how to work my own history into my art and your practice inspires me. Thank you for your deeply personal, uncommercial, love-filled work ❤️.

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